Lesbians and Gay Men Over 60. Where are they? Part 4
This is not to say that this segment of the population is without problems. Elderly gay people have many concerns in common with elderly heterosexuals; these include health, housing, income, getting appropriate medical care, access to social/community activities, companionship, nutrition, household chores, fear of crime, and staying active and involved.
Additional difficulties, however, are unique to elderly gays. Douglas Kimmel suggests some of the important issues unique to the experience of older gay persons. One is vulnerability; these people have had to live with all kinds of threats: exposure, job loss, social stigma and violence. Even if some of these threats exist only in a gay persons’ perception of their world, their consequences are very real. Another issue for aging gay men and lesbians is self-imposed secrecy about their lifestyle. This reduces the likelihood of forming relationships that may provide essential support during difficult times. Living a double life, lying, and covering up also lead individuals to internalize the social stigma about being gay. A third issue to consider in order to understand the gay elderly is the anger they feel because of the oppression they have experienced for many years. Many have channeled this anger into creative, useful endeavours (career, home, friendship network). For others, the anger and oppression have turned inward to debilitate them with depression. Most aging gay men and lesbians probably are between these two extremes. These three themes are especially significant for older gay men and lesbians because they have been oppressed longer and more harshly than their younger counterparts.
Additional difficulties, however, are unique to elderly gays. Douglas Kimmel suggests some of the important issues unique to the experience of older gay persons. One is vulnerability; these people have had to live with all kinds of threats: exposure, job loss, social stigma and violence. Even if some of these threats exist only in a gay persons’ perception of their world, their consequences are very real. Another issue for aging gay men and lesbians is self-imposed secrecy about their lifestyle. This reduces the likelihood of forming relationships that may provide essential support during difficult times. Living a double life, lying, and covering up also lead individuals to internalize the social stigma about being gay. A third issue to consider in order to understand the gay elderly is the anger they feel because of the oppression they have experienced for many years. Many have channeled this anger into creative, useful endeavours (career, home, friendship network). For others, the anger and oppression have turned inward to debilitate them with depression. Most aging gay men and lesbians probably are between these two extremes. These three themes are especially significant for older gay men and lesbians because they have been oppressed longer and more harshly than their younger counterparts.
* to be continued *
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